What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

What movies and TV shows portray realistic beauty standards?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

Can you write a short story with a twist ending?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

Have you ever met someone and something seemed so unusual about them but you couldn't put your finger on what it was?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Is there a correlation between being a medium and mental health?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

How is it not psychopathic to use someone for sex, even if they agree?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

Why would you think you're fit to be a model?

*** Questions About Me ***

If you win, what will you make them do?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

Do airline pilots try to avoid turbulence? How can you tell if your flight has been rerouted due to weather conditions or other factors?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

What is one thing you've learned from life?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

Can the effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) be reversed?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

How has your life changed for the past 10 years? Can you share your #10year challenge? Is your life better, worse, or still hopeful?

Please share Did you stop?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

Nothing too Serious

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

39~ What are your love languages?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

How old are you? Male or Female?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

What is your favorite position? Why?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

If yes, what?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Would you read them together?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

Any that are a turn off?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

52~ What are your hobbies?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

Any that are a turn off?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

*** Random Questions ***

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

Family Relation Age Play

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

The Ice Breaker Questions

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

29- How superstitious are you?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?